~
The Self, a feeling a thought and an act... ~
If
you can entertain the notion that the natural state of a human being
is happiness and well-being, then perhaps you can appreciate that counselling,
at its essence, is not so much
about helping you to construct a new and better "you", but
is concerned with
helping you learn to let go of the feelings and thinking, the patterns
and
habits which are disturbing your natural integrity, and with showing
you the way back to naturally relating to your self again.
At
one level or another the troubles we have in life
are nearly always sourced back to a troubled relationship with
our own self. Our self-sense is the core template that determines our
future life experience. Whatever issues you may seem to have with others
in your life, the cause of them is almost always traced back to your
relationship to your self. Cure the Core and you secure your future!
Your parents or society may have had a big hand in shaping that self,
but your self was actually created by you, and is currently maintained
by you. Therefore you have the power
in your own person to change your life in profound ways.
The
tools and theory I have created and assimilated into my practice are
focused on this level of problem solving. They are derived in part from
the conventional skills and protocols
of my formal training, augmented with cutting edge psychological tools.
These
tools have been refined and deepened with the insight and experience
gained
from my own explorations of the depth and dynamics of my own self.
This therapeutic approach is an elegant, direct, gentle, and effective
process designed to help you to begin to reclaim more of your native
integrity and happiness. My approach deals
not only with your thinking mind and your emotional heart, but also
the energetic
patterns of your life. I use ordinary narrative dialog coupled with
practical internal
exercises to give you a opportunity to practice right-relating to self,
rather than just talking about it or merely getting cathartic.
I am happy to tell you that this process of self mastery is not a grueling
task, immersed in
dark dramas of the past, or an endless assimilation of new and better
insights,
nor a rigorous application to undoable tasks. Indeed it is often a rather
heartening and joyful process.
I'm so pleased with the success which
my clients have achieved that and I am happy
to offer you a free introductory meeting, in order to help
you to decide whether you wish to work on these issues together,
and then proceed to a working session, if and when you wish.
Here
are a some comments from clients who have offered their appreciation
for the assistance they have received:
All
I can say is that I had a sense of deep understanding on your part during
the sessions, and that afterwards, I would be leaving with this very
fresh and new look on my life. Thank you!
Nada L.
Mullumbimby
It
is with great appreciation that I write this note. The words "thank
you' could never be enough to say how much you have helped me.
B.V.
Lismore
Call
Brian Emmett to have a chat, or schedule an appointment,
either at a beautiful little Meeting
Room in Myocum
(between Byron Bay and Mullumbimby), or in
Bangalow.
Contact me at 02 6684 2936 or
0431 857 909
or via email at 
and begin re-creating your Life in an
intelligent and deeply grounded way.
|
Brian
with fellow staff members: Jiri, Jann and Rob
(Photo-
Courtesy of the Echo Newspaper)
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The
Art of Self integrates the training, experience and skills I have developed
over
a lifetime into a holistic counselling process:
~ Clinical
Member of CAPA - Counsellors And Psychotherapists Association
~ Member of AARC - Australian Association of Relationship Counsellors
~ PACFA, Reg. #21342 - the National Register of Psychotherapists and Counsellors
~
Experienced therapist with over 900 supervised hours over the past 5
years.
~ Supervisor of Telephone Counsellors at Lifeline Counselling Centre
~
Advanced Diploma in Post Milan Systemic Therapy, trained and experienced
working with
individuals, couples, groups and families.
~ Practitioner and facilitator of Men's Groups in the Shire for 6 years
~ Highly skilled in personal empowerment and integrating Shadow aspects
with the Light.
~ Practitioner of Advaitayana Buddhism for 27 years, exploring ultimate
Cause & true Self.
~ Survivor for twenty-five years of the streets of New York City.
If you are interested in hearing more about this process, click on this link to learn more.
"The World is moved
by Love ... it kneels before It in Awe."
William Hurt as Edward Walker in 'The Village'
"The World breaks everyone,
and afterward, many are strong at the broken places."
Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms